Thoughts & Moods...
moods & thoughts.
Welcome to the inner reaches of my mind.
Because debt is not cute.
My presence is a present kiss my… under the mistletoe!
False humility is the enemy of success. At least in my case. Sure, it’s not as obvious as procrastination or ill-preparedness, but it’s up there. And when I say “humility” I’m not talking about the virtuous opposite of pride. I’m talking about the “you don’t know you’re beautiful” nonsense that many of us (mainly women) are tricked into thinking is a requirement for being liked.
If a dress doesn’t fit, does it even belong to me anymore? If letting go of this one thing made me feel liberated, how would I feel if I began saying goodbye to all of the things I no longer had use for.
I'm not the best at letting myself off the hook for past mistakes. I often find myself muttering expletives, calling myself an idiot for that time I didn't stand up for myself or that day I let someone down. Sometimes these regret-filled events are years old.
Over the next 30 weeks, I plan to create new habits, set intentions, reframe my outlook and let go of things that do not serve me. Including behavioural/personality traits I developed as coping mechanisms over the years. The outcome, I hope, will be a happier, healthier and well-rounded me.
To hell with the Gregorian Calendar, springtime is where it's at!
I remember being in my early twenties and hearing people talk about their life goals and their urgency to achieve them before they reached 25.
I've never been a confrontational person. I avoid confrontation at all costs, to my detriment, sometimes to the point of cowardice. But recently I feel like the universe has been telling me to woman-up and get my assertive shit together.